my Vow

So I decided a couple weeks ago that I would focus more on dating than the meaningless relationships I've been having with men that last for about 15 unfulfilling minutes then I kick them out. So I decided that sex may be hurting my life more than helping it, so I decided to take a vow of celibacy (which is a lot lot harder than I thought it would be). So the plan is I am not allowed to have sexual activity until I've gone on at least three dates with the same guy (which was my new year's resolution still to be accomplished) or Jan 1. THat's the plan. Wish me luck.